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		<title>“Try Not. Do or do not. There is no try.” &#8211; Yoda</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Mar 2011 19:15:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Belief is powerful. When you believe you can achieve something no matter how challenging, big or small you will commit to do what is necessary to make it happen. Therefore, whether you believe in mediocrity or results you will achieve what you believe.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many people are familiar with Yoda, a very wise Jedi Master from Star Wars, who was charged to train Luke Skywalker in how to use his “force.” This quote is from the scene where Luke was trying to mentally, by using his &#8220;force,&#8221; pull his plane from the muck of a swamp. Luke told Yoda he would try and he failed.</p>
<p>A very influential mentor of mine used to say time and time again. <strong>“There is no A for effort in business.”</strong> I grew up like many with the belief that trying my best was good enough. However, I have learned in 25 years of business that there is a strong connection between these two quotes. “There is no A for effort” really means it is all about the results you achieve and it is not about the attempt and to Yoda’s point, <em>trying</em> is merely an attempt.</p>
<p>In order to accomplish results and excel at what you do, you must have the skills but more importantly you need to believe you can do it. Trying is a self-limiting belief. After Luke attempted and failed, Yoda used his “force” to save the plane. Luke watched in amazement and when Yoda was finished, Luke said to Yoda, “I don’t believe it.” and Yoda’s response was, “That is why you fail.”</p>
<p><strong>Belief is powerful.</strong> When you believe you can achieve something no matter how challenging, big or small, you will commit to do what is necessary to make it happen. You will learn what you need to learn. You will commit whatever time is necessary and you will seek out qualified assistance when needed. Because your belief is so strong you will access whatever resources are necessary to make it happen and you will cross the finish line victorious.</p>
<p>An attitude of trying will never propel you to take the extra step because your measuring stick of “I tried” gives you permission to walk away based on what is believed to be a good enough effort. People and businesses often fall short due to this simple but powerful belief. I mentioned earlier that belief is powerful. <strong>Therefore whether you believe in mediocrity or results, you will achieve what you believe.</strong></p>
<p>Yoda also told Luke to “unlearn what you have learned.” If you are used to “trying” unlearn your way into a new belief of achievement. Here are some ideas that may help you.</p>
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<li>Use positive affirmations and say them multiple times a day.</li>
<li>Surround yourself with people who will positively reinforce your plan and push you to excel.</li>
<li>Align with a coach to hold you accountable to your personal development.</li>
<li>Find a mentor who has accomplished similar results to what you are looking for and become a sponge.</li>
<li>Become a voracious learner.</li>
<li>Surround yourself with positive messages.</li>
<li>Disconnect from the naysayers in your life. Your success has nothing to do with their ‘I tried and can’t’ attitude so don’t let them hold you back.</li>
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<p>Luke finally got it. <strong>So, when will you?</strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #888888;"><em>Tammy A.S. Kohl is President of Resource Associates Corporation. For over 30 years, RAC has specialized in business and management consulting, strategic planning, leadership development, executive coaching and youth leadership. For more information visit </em><a href="../../"><em>www.resourceassociatescorp.com</em></a><em> or contact RAC directly at 800.799.6227.</em></span></p>
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		<title>The Leader as a Mentor and a Director</title>
		<link>http://www.resourceassociatescorp.com/blog/2010/02/the-leader-as-a-mentor-and-a-director/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 16:57:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Resource Associates Corp</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In addition the role of visionary and coach there are two additional roles that round out an exceptional leader: The role of mentor and the role of director. What's the difference?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>As a leader you must be many things to many people. </strong></p>
<p>We have discussed in previous posts the need for a leader to be a visionary because involving people in realizing a compelling vision provides a beacon for the future and a standard of excellence. We have also talked about the leader’s role as a coach. A leader as a coach reinforces the results they believe people are capable of achieving as winning depends on execution.</p>
<p>In addition to the roles of visionary and coach there are two additional roles that round out an exceptional leader: The role of mentor and the role of director.</p>
<p><strong>The Leader as a Mentor </strong></p>
<p>While many aspects of the mentoring role are similar to coaching, the significant differences lie in the mentor’s advisory or teaching role. A mentor is a trusted advisor and tutor. Mentors share the benefit of their experience and knowledge. It is a critical role in developing individuals who will collectively be responsible for the success of the organization. As a mentor you should seek innovation, encourage experimentation, reward appropriate risk taking, drive out fear, and create an environment where everyone communicates freely, honestly, and positively.</p>
<p>Establish an environment that encourages and rewards people to develop their skills, improve their results, and learn new skills. Actively seek to help people learn from your experiences and knowledge. Develop a culture where people feel responsible for their own results and are supportive of others, as well as provide the model, knowledge, training, and freedom to achieve their goals. Today’s leaders must foster a culture where continuous learning and continuous improvement are the norm not the exception.</p>
<p><strong>The Leader as a Director</strong></p>
<p>In the director’s role, the leader is like a symphony orchestra conductor. Everyone knows their part, comes in on cue, and maintains the tempo that had been established. The conductor does not play the instruments, that is the role of the musicians. Each musician does not decide when to play, that is the role of the conductor. The role of the conductor is to elicit the best possible individual performance in concert with the entire orchestra to create a symphony of sound. The leader/director establishes the direction for the organization and for the people. This does not mean the leader is the authoritarian expert who knows all of the answers. Rather, it means that the leader, as director, gathers the input and ideas from everyone in the organization, establishes goals, and aligns the resources to achieve those goals. The director creates conditions under which peak performers can thrive. The director continuously evaluates whether the direction serves both the organization’s best interest and the best interest of all individuals involved.</p>
<p>All leadership behavior must create an environment in which people are encouraged to seek out innovative ways of doing things which will ultimately lead to more revenues or lower costs. Excellent leaders use their complimentary skills as a visionary, a coach, a mentor, and a director to accomplish just that. In the words of former President Dwight D. Eisenhower, “Leadership is the art of getting someone else to do something you want done because he/she wants to do it.”</p>
<p><span style="color: #999999;"><em>Tammy A.S. Kohl is President of Resource Associates Corporation. For over 30 years, RAC has specialized in business and management consulting, strategic planning, leadership development, executive coaching, and youth leadership. For more information visit </em><a href="http://www.resourceassociatescorp.com/"><em>http://www.resourceassociatescorp.com/</em></a><em> or contact RAC directly at 800.799.6227.</em></span></p>
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